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This soccer publication is strangely uninspiring, yet curiously irresistible. Its title raises questions. Dear England already belongs to a successful theatrical production, an upcoming television program, and a public letter authored by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This version of Dear England is not officially tied to any of those. It represents an oddity in the expanding Dear England universe, a volume about guidance: a traditionally dull top-level coach trope that Southgate sticks to relentlessly, using the words “leadership”, “guiding” or “leadership” at least 500 times across 336 pages.

Themes Explored

“Who are the leaders? What is the role of a leader? And what do leaders know?” the author questions at the outset, establishing his stall, but declining to explore “When are leaders?”, questions likely set aside for a follow-up publication.

Otherwise, this book has a book-shaped hole throughout. It’s an attempt in subtly confrontational self-defense, in nearly but not entirely stating the actual thing, jumping adeptly from unresolved issue to raw emotion across a collection of pie charts, corporate platitudes and references about Thomas Cromwell.

Reading Experience

Reading it is like eavesdropping on your parents having a polite but profoundly personal argument in the nearby area while you’re attempting to pay attention on a professional workshop called “112 Reasons Why Naturally I Had the Last Laugh”. But it is also difficult to disengage, as the author keeps drifting near to an issue you genuinely wish to learn about, before suddenly veering away.

Disclosures

The book contains typically news headlines in books of this nature, explained by the peeled-eyeball obsession with the role of England manager. The most notable ones include: Southgate made up his mind he was certainly going to quit as England manager after supporters hurled beer glasses at him at the European Championship; he came very close to withdrawing from the game at half-time against the Bulgarian team in 2019 after his players were racially abused; he introduced the concept of set-piece coaches and all teams in the English football is now copying him; he has now lost his enthusiasm for football, a startling revelation casually mentioned in a single paragraph at the final part.

Leading England through a period of rage, hope, political ferment and lockdown was a brutal experience. The bruises are evidently still raw.

Commonplace Material

Throughout much of the book, the narrative is saturated with an AI-style linguistic mush of commonplace management talk. Copies of this book were distributed with critics under confidentiality clauses prior to launch, probably out of apprehension someone might disclose that “difficult conversations can, by their inherent quality, be tough”, that you should always look before you leap, that management happens where evolution combines with understanding.

Genuine Feeling

There is however authentic feeling present. Managing England through a period of fury, optimism, upheaval and pandemic restrictions was a brutal journey. The bruises are obviously still raw, though presented in a terminology-heavy reinvention of the traditional coach theme: demonstrating my accuracy about each issue from the start.

Specific Examples

Even publication’s introductory section, Trojan-horsed as thrilling memories of the championship match of the tournament, is entirely focused on how good Southgate really was at tactical substitutions (the primary Southgate gripe being he was not good at making changes). Subsequently, he delves into great depth about how he managed the deciding game of 2021 impeccably – specifically the losing penalty shootout – because he complied with a set protocol, which suggests that throwing on inexperienced squad members in the closing stages to take the crucial kick of their existence was logical and right.

That approach was proved right by a winning penalty decider against Switzerland four years later after a match where England spent the full duration looking as if they were striving to don a sweater the wrong way round. “Our dominance in that penalty decider was absolutely thrilling,” he states, while equating the showing to special forces neutralizing Osama bin Laden. Dear me.

Avoided Revelations

On the occasions we approach to a disclosure, Southgate backs away from identifying individuals or providing the details. We hear there were difficult England players who insisted on more focus, perhaps because they were indulged during the beginning of their time in football. But as you expect eagerly, Southgate is already shifting into something named The Culture Code, which claims that instead of a collection of qualities or values, organizational ethos is in fact a phenomenon that is developed by, gah, enough, no more.

Strengths

Included in the better parts are when the author discusses about the incremental nature of fostering resilience in the next generation, or how he tried to describe Englishness more clearly and more constructively than anyone else in the spotlight. The standout section, there is a genuinely absorbing narrative of that traumatic night in the Bulgarian capital where England’s African heritage squad members were subjected to vile treatment (and afterwards supported robustly by their coach).

Sincere Finale

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